From Empty Nest to Crowded Nest

From   |  May 10, 2011
In Book Scoop, Coffee and Convo

Officially my nest is not "a crowded nest." But it sure feels that way to me.

According to Kathleen Shaputis author of “The Crowded Nest Syndrome” © 2003

"You Know You’re Living in a Crowded Nest When…

Your other car is a U-Haul.

You have to take a number to use the bathroom.

You’re on a first name basis with employees at CostCo.

You go to your car on Monday morning and the gas tank is empty.

The fire department pulls your occupancy permit.

Every time you return from a fast food restaurant, you bring back a job application.

You go to a hockey game for peace and quiet.

All your kids are grown and they’re still living at home."

 

OK, so my kids aren't completely grown, since they are still in college and basically still on my dime. But they take up space like they are. This will be the first summer we share my smaller, downsized home. In tow will be Hannah's cat she rescued, Zuri, all of her clothes and some of her furniture since she's sub-letting her house at school. Then there's all of Rachel's dorm room contents. There's also the furniture Rachel is beginning to accumulate for her house she'll be moving into when she returns in the fall. So my little house is busting at the seams. I can't even begin to imagine what my food budget is going to have to do. Or what difference 3 people will make to my utility bills. If any of you have helpful advice for me surviving this season, PLEASE leave your hints in the comments section.

Comments

From Samina - May 10, 2011

No hints, only thoughts of encouragement - take lots of deep breaths & realize that one day, you'll miss this time. Until that comes though, try to not throttle your girls!

From AnnM - May 11, 2011

Hmm, maybe a short term storage rental.....just for a couple of months while the kids are home?

From Rosy - May 12, 2011

Just enjoy the moment.

From Kitchen Zone - May 18, 2011

Make hay whilst the sun shines - it will not always be shining.

From Glenda - May 19, 2011

Alicia, you will find that you quickly get used to it and love having them around and then they will be gone again and you will miss them. Enjoy them.

From Nick Jr - February 10, 2013

Sorry to say there will be no way to pre-plan. If it's a small place how can you adjust? Get some fresh air because I'm sure you will get frustrated. I'm older and having roommates isn't something I am going to adapt to very well now. Privacy? Forget that. Just accept it I suppose. "This too shall pass"

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